Dom Vs Domme can they co-exist?
Domination and submission seems to be pretty straight forward on the surface of it but when you look deeper it gets more complicated. Who is the dominant in the relationship and who is the submissive? What if you’re a bit of both? Most BDSM stories you read will have a Master or a Mistress and his or her submissive. Those roles don’t change. It often looks like you can only be one or the other. And I’m not even going to get started on all the different implements you can use that would get very confusing indeed. I’m a fan of the bare hand myself by the way…anyway, back to the subject in er, hand.
When I sat down to write Fulfill Me I didn’t picture it as a BDSM novel at all. All I knew was that my main female character, Caitlyn would be looking for her one and only and would be very surprised by who that turned out to be. As I wrote it though Caitlyn took over and she had lots of fun experimenting with sex. She goes from Domme to one man to being submissive with another. Can you do that? Well I think so. Can the scenes happily co-exist in one book? Again, I think so. You should pick up your own copy of Fulfill Me to judge for yourself it is available from Amazon.com, Amazon.co.uk and All Romance Ebooks and all good book retailers.
Now for an excerpt. Domme or Dom? Read on to find out.
“On all fours, slave. I’m taking my pet for a walk.” He waddles on hands and knees beside me as I trot around my small living space. “Oh you wiggle your bottom wonderfully,” I snap down the whip on it as we walk, loving the snapping noise as it smarts his buttocks. “I will have to take you out on your lead won’t I puppy? Oh yes, my pet would love to go to the park with Mistress leading him on his lead. We could play fetch, and you could roll in the grass. Wait for a nice hot day doggy, and we’ll do that.”
I walk him round for a while longer, every now and then catching his rump with the whip. His knees should be aching by now.
“Sit.” I command, and he sits back on his heels. “Good boy. I think my sweet pet deserves a treat. Yes a treat for my lil’ good boy!” I ruffle his hair and speak in that coochy voice pet owners so often use. I walk over to the couch and sit down right on the edge. I lean my body back, spreading my thighs wide open.
“Come on, come and lick up your treat, doggy.” He crawls over as quickly as he can and his face is forced into my crotch powerfully, almost painfully. His tongue laps, like a thirsty animal at a bowl of cool water. I growl my appreciation as his tongue plunges up and down my cunt, searching out all my favourite little spots of arousal, digging inside of me to flick his tongue over my G-spot, making me leak more fluids and squirm with the intense pleasure. I let him lick and lap and suck and kiss me to a pounding orgasm.
My fingers dig into his head, twisting at his hair and I force more of my crotch into his face as he sucks on my pulsating clit. My body throbs and shakes with the intense force of orgasm.
“OK, Mistress’s good boy. For making me come so hard on your sweet tongue you get a prize.”
I pass him a condom packet and get down on all fours.
“Come on doggy, fuck me.”
When you’re reading BDSM do you like to have the same dominant/submissive relationship or do you like the roles to get mixed up a bit?
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Victoria Blisse is a mother, wife, Christian, Manchester United fan and award winning erotica author. She is also the editor of several Bigger Briefs collections, Smut by the Sea and Smut in the City.
She is equally at home behind a laptop or a cooker and she loves to create stories, poems, cakes and biscuits that make people happy. She was born near Manchester, England and her northern English quirkiness shows through in all of her stories.Passion, love and laughter fill her works, just as they fill her busy life.
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Thought-provoking extract. Just off to lie down in a darkened room
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Yowza, gotta love femdom! I like a domme to be a domme all the way through, but I don’t mind a little switch action in m/m…
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This reminds me of a story my boyfriend told me. He is a 61-year-old retired Army major – total hottness! He was living in a senior trailer park. Children, dogs, and young women love him. He has several young homegirls. One day he was visited by two. He took leashes and put them around their necks, and walked them into the clubhouse where a bunch of other senior residents were hanging out. They told him “Oh, no. You can’t do that here.” I got jealous when he told me the story, but he’s all mine now. I would like to do some submissive, masochistic stuff with him when we get to know each other better. I am a fiber artist from Winchester, CA. I make softie art dolls. I am inspired to make a submissive and a dominatrix today. Thank you for your writing. It is very good. I also like to write erotica. I have been published a few times in Playgirl magazine.